Shld i say "I Miss You"?

angela-A SG

Well, i do have a close friend. We do confide in each other quite frequent. Recently, he's out of town. And i do haf tt kinda "i-miss-him" kinda feeling. And everytime, i see him online.. feel so much like telling him that. Problem is... i treat him as a good guy friend but i think maybe he has abit of feelings for me.

Will i be misleading him by saying that? I feel uncomfortable keeping it in my heart... but i scared when i say that, our friendship may have a change?
Also, have i unknowlingly fallen for him?
Shld i say that i miss him?

anhydrouscoppersulphate SG

reminds me of the song “Words of Love Not Yet Spoken”

Gwangetto SG

u should tell him what you feel. if he mistaken u for liking him, that's his problem. Laughing

mhcampboy SG

just say it la. in a more casual manner maybe. Cool

XciteZ SG

how about telling him this

"Hello pal, no time no see wor. Got miss me? I miss you leh! take care man! Friends forever!"

one stone kills two birds

lonestar86 SG

yes u shld..
no harm trying right??

BrUtUs SG

if u dun reali like him, dun say it cos it will reali lead him on…. so bcareful with these keywords… maybe u might be interested in him but whether its true or not is for u to find out yourself… maybe u can try hang out more often n see if the chemistry works anot…

zodi SG

or maybe the song... "ai4 mei4"...

MohamedF SG

Just say it. Chances are that he will see you as a friend too. If the guy get mislead, just explain to him…. Then you can rub it in his face afterwards… Remember, the tone is means alot more than the words. It distinguishes real from sarcasm.

dragg SG

this type of thing also you need advice?

MohamedF SG

Girl mah.... don't try to understand.... too complicated....

the Bear SG

the fact that you are asking, means you do have feelings Wink

what kinda feelings? only you can answer that question yourself..

take a few days to think... brute honesty..

good luck Wink

lonestar86 SG

wanna follow-up..

Women can also take the initiative right??
Its not necessary for men to make the first move..

Btw, nowadays words like I miss u, I love u etc. have become cliches..
If a gal (i mean any of my female friends) told me that she miss me, Ill reply her that I miss her too..
Friends can also miss one another right??
Dun worry abt it too much..
Jus say it..
Well support u.. Smile

dinky1409 SG

Just wondering here threadstarter, what's stopping you from giving a relationship to occur a chance? Fear that it would turn out not to be and a great friendship is ruined? In a way, from your post, you may have not say you missed him but your heart seems to have said it already. My say? Tell him you miss him and give the friendship a chance to progress to the next level.. Wink

browniebaobao SG

Just say "I miss u, my fren."

is it so hard to say that 3 words to a fren? Rolling Eyes

darknessfall SG

actually, it depends on the words you type with "i miss you" and the occassion, and timing..

its easy for guys to be misled, if a gal just tell him "i miss you"...

are you sure you have no feelings for him? or are you just afraid to admit it, just in case it is a one way traffic? be true to your own feelings, and i am sure, you will know what you shld do from then on..

good luck treadstarter! Wink

alwaysdisturbed SG

i think u shld say to ease urself at the same time make it clear that as a friend only to him....

but then looking at the replies here saying that since u post it here, u shld hv some feelings. for that i don't know. u are the only who knows.

think abt it.

Devil1976 SG

You mean you wanna say something which you would not be sure what you're talking about Question